Don’t worry about things you can’t control.

7.2.24

It’s okay to cry.

I need to get this off my chest…and if you don’t like cuss words, don’t read it…

Red & black.

Dirt was thrown but instead a rose grew from honey and potatoes. You’ve always been a flower meant to love and be loved but just like a forgotten garden, sometimes weeds and crabgrass grow in the meadows. The wasps tried to sting you and the flies swarmed while you were down, but they didn’t understand that your guardian angels are profound.

As I mentioned in another post “…love isn’t cheating or being physically, verbally, or emotionally abusive. Now is it perfect?! Hell no…” , I feel like I’ve been inspired to discuss another perspective. As I listen to others and try to understand the different dynamics of why people choose to stay connected when it comes to unsatisfactory intimate relationships, I’m starting to wonder why it’s okay to even deal with for an extended period of time in the first place - I certa

Initially, my answer to this infamous question was no, but as I really think about it…unfortunately, it depends. I feel like it’s a choice to let something like social media ruin a relationship because at the end of the day, with open communication and transparency, there’s nothing to really ruin. I can only hope that it’s a joke when people say it - the toxic positivity in me is going to say it is - but thinking you’re irreplaceable or like someone is going to regret moving

Sometimes rising like a phoenix from the ashes and blossoming into a rose is justice enough

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When I googled the definition of love , I interpreted the meaning as something beautiful, enjoyable, and positive and just to take it a little deeper, to me a divine union is an equally yoked and inevitable, spiritual connection that surpasses the physical world, allowing souls to intertwine into one.

Unfortunately, this is inspired by a beautiful soul who stated that sometimes they’re ashamed to be black; all I’m going to say to that is…love your melanin! and just like Tupac Shakur so beautifully stated “some say the blacker the berry, the sweeter the juice I say the darker the flesh then the deeper the roots”. Let’s be real for a moment, we live in a tremendously diverse society, which is wonderful but it breaks my heart when I hear my fellow melanated a.k.a. BLACK (tech

To be clear, anyone who makes it through the tunnel of a dark night of the soul (there may be more than one), is a true soldier of life and my heart goes out to anyone who chooses not to let the woes of life turn them into a selfish monster or continue a cycle of intentional pain, stress, hurt, etc. because it's not easy. Although dramatized, this documentary is a good example and a small glimpse of what a cycle of pain and poverty can do (and this is only one topic of many):

Recently, I was told to “stop giving people the benefit of the doubt”, and I hate to admit it, but they’re right. I repeated the same...

Being that this is a personal blog, I feel like being real for a moment. As I willingly choose to tap back into the digital world again, I'm observing how chaotic it is, but it is what it is, honey. Between algorithms, celebrity gossip, entertainment, spirituality, wellness, and everything else in-between, it can be quite overwhelming. Moreover, with there now being this obsession for some of us (humanity as a whole) to go viral and only use content creation as a business,...

As I'm sitting here meditating and wondering how I want to share my website, blog posts, etc...I turned to the world of YouTube but then I saw "Post an update to your fans"...*sigh*...fans?...fanssssss?!...fansssssss?!? Chile, right now all I'm trying to do is share relatable content that people vibe with. So now I'm just sitting here like ughhh, ok...if I post something then it's gonna feel like I'm trying to build a "fanbase" and that's not necessarily the case. Being famou

As I was contemplating about what to express today, several things came to mind! I haven't tapped back into the book I've been reading after the first chapter, which was briefly discussed here (disclaimer: it's a 21:51 min. YouTube video of me casually talking...as in sipping' on tea in the comfort of my home and running my mouth): (somebodyyy said they wanted to read the book with me) Plus, it's been interesting so far and I want to comprehend the lil' details. Knowing me, I

Photo by: Me, a random selfie exhibiting flawed, natural beauty So I've decided to move my blogging content to a platform where people can potentially interact with me, but to be honest...I'm a little nervous. Will I be perceived as too sexual, unfiltered, or direct?! who knows…I don't really know what I'm doing or if people are even going to find what I'm writing (well typing...) but I'm starting to enjoy the illusion of an intimate space where I can create my own world and