DSRW | Healing Through Honesty

Don’t worry about things you can’t control.

7.2.24

It’s okay to cry.

Red & black.

Dirt was thrown but instead a rose grew from honey and potatoes. You’ve always been a flower meant to love and be loved but just like a forgotten garden, sometimes weeds and crabgrass grow in the meadows. The wasps tried to sting you and the flies swarmed while you were down, but they didn’t understand that your guardian angels are profound.

As I mentioned in another post “…love isn’t cheating or being physically, verbally, or emotionally abusive. Now is it perfect?! Hell no…”, I feel like I’ve been inspired to discuss another perspective. As I listen to others and try to understand the different dynamics of why people choose to stay connected when it comes to unsatisfactory intimate relationships, I’m starting to wonder why it’s okay to even deal with for an extended period of time in the first place - I certain

Initially, my answer to this infamous question was no, but as I really think about it…unfortunately, it depends. I feel like it’s a choice to let something like social media ruin a relationship because at the end of the day, with open communication and transparency, there’s nothing to really ruin. I can only hope that it’s a joke when people say it - the toxic positivity in me is going to say it is - but thinking you’re irreplaceable or like someone is going to regret moving

When I googled the definition of love, I interpreted the meaning as something beautiful, enjoyable, and positive, and to take it a little deeper, to me, a Divine union is an equally yoked and inevitable spiritual connection that surpasses the physical world, allowing souls to intertwine into one.

Recently, I was told to “stop giving people the benefit of the doubt”, and I hate to admit it, but they’re right. I repeated the same life lessons with different people over the years all because I saw the potential in someone or chose to overlook certain qualities. Trying to accept everyone is cute because we’re all flawed with our own issues, but there comes a time when boundaries are necessary. Dealing with emotionally manipulative narcissists (non-gender-specific) who may

Photo by: Me, while taking a walk and appreciating Mother Nature

Depending on who it's being discussed with, the topic of "sex" can be so taboo, but then again, it's a part of human nature, and with sexuality now being a part of this huge spectrum, we can never really know where each other stands without asking clarifying questions. I decided to do a quick look-up for the definition of "celibacy" and, to be honest, there are several definitions, especially in relation to religious beliefs, so I just skimmed everything and went from there.